How To Restore Safety, Intimacy, & Trust To Your Marriage After Porn
A Path To Healing Your Relationship
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The Story Of The Couple Haunted By Porn
I want to tell you a story about Michael and Jane.
Michael secretly watches porn.
He’s been doing it off-and-on for a while. Oftentimes it’s when he’s feeling lonely, stressed, overwhelmed, or depressed…
In every other aspect of his life, he sees himself as a great guy. He’s a hard worker. He tries to be an attentive husband and father.
But he has this secret…
And he hates himself for it, because it goes directly against his values of respecting women, being faithful to his wife in his thoughts and his heart, and so much more.
But the porn use feels out-of-control…
He’s promised himself countless times that he’ll stop… but he keeps finding himself turning back to it again and again.
And he’s terrified that if his wife finds out, she’ll think he’s some kind of monster and divorce him and he’ll lose everything.
His secret weighs on him almost as much as the consequence of disclosing the secret.
Eventually, Jane finds out.
Regardless of whether Michaels confessed to her, or she found out on her own, she feels deeply hurt, angry, confused... even betrayed.
She has tons of unanswered questions.
“Why did you keep it a secret?”
“What else are you hiding?”
“Do I even know you?”
“Am I not sexy enough for you?”
“Do you care more about porn than you care about our marriage?”
